What a great topic! It’s something I’ve discussed in therapy before. Like a few other people on here, I get super hard from seeing guys sagging, but sex has never been interesting for me. I love the kissing, closeness and touching, but they don’t arouse me. When I go on dates, if we end up coming back to my place, I always want it to end before anything can happen beyond making out. I’ve had orgasms from guys blowing me, but I can’t stay hard when I’ve tried to top guys, and I hate bottoming. In order to stay hard with a guy, I have to think about sagging.
It’s interesting to see that som
