I was in a very similar situation once about 10 years ago. I developed feelings for my very str8 roomate/best friend. How close are you with this guy? Does he know you're gay and ok with it? If so, I would just be real with him. If you think he can handle it, tell him you have these feelings. Once you clear the air, it will be easier to move on. I told my roomie how I felt and it was awkward at first, but it got better. After a few weeks, it was like nothing happened. Hey, maybe you would even get lucky and he likes you back or wants to experiment. But, if you're not that close with him, or do