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As long as it's legal, I don't really care.

My partner is 12 years older I’ve always been attracted to older my first real bf after coming out. Was 36 And I was 18 we dated for 2 years

My partner's 12 years older than me and we've been together for years now. For me, age really doesn't factor much into wether I'm attracted to a guy or not. It's super cliche but genuinely it's all about personality for me and wether or not I actually enjoy being with that person. I have always been quite old for my body, though, and people often think I'm older than I actually am. A couple times, me and my partner have been mistaken for the same age so I think that's probably true. I honestly never notice our age gap, though - it's just not really something that bothers me or effects me.

Interesting topic. I've mostly dated guys around my age but as someone who looks younger than my age I also attract college aged guys too which is interesting I'm 33 yet am fairly slim and am told I look around 5-10 years younger (someone at a bar last year thought I was 19 or 20- I laughed and thought they were joking but I'm not complaining....Good gene's I guess) this is something I've had experience with a few times now. After I turned 30 I became more self conscious about coming off as an old creep to "younger" guys when I see hot college aged guys (18-24) and give a quick look. Havi

As long as it's legal than it's fine.

Age of consent is 18 years old. That is decided by the society. BIOLOGICALLY speaking it is more like 16 years old. This is when your body becomes sexually active and wants to be sexually pleased. Older men with younger men is a preference. Just like black with white men or young with young men. Remember, nobody is forcing the young man to be with an older man. Who are we to decide if it is ''allowed'' or ''tasteful'' I wonder? I always believe in the principle of minding your own business and when be thankful we live in a society where many different tastes are

Depends on what is "older" or "younger." I'm 18 and I like guys in their twenties. I wouldn't go much higher than that. It's not the age that bothers me it's the fact that you have less in common with those who are too far from your age group generally speaking. Just me thoughh

do you actually know what that word means friend? its not always the older man that seeks the attention, a consenting young adult is just as likely to want to be with an older guy for security and maturity. it cuts both ways mate

I'm 30, so I guess I'm stuck in the middle between "young" and "old." I came out when I was 19 (spring 2001) and became sexually active around the same time. At the time, a guy who was 25 was "an older guy" in my mind and someone over 30 was ancient. Some of my friends (around my own age) like guys in their 40s and I just didn't get it. As I got older, my age limits expanded. Right now, I'd say my ideal age range is 20 to "looks 40" (i.e., I'd hook up with a 60 year old if he actually looked to be about 40 or younger, but won't hook up with an old-looking 38 year old). The one thing I've